Maternal and paternal
- attitude comparison -
Fifth Edition
Iwao Otsuka
Motherhood is, against trying to protect wrapped the child in me, fatherhood is, in terms of were allowed to separate and independent children from their own, so go the child to support himself well, follow-up and assistance from outside the to try to make, we can assume that there is a difference, such as.
[ Abstract ] In a nutshell the difference between maternal and paternal, maternal is "closed to the inside" world = to the world of your uterus womb equivalent to trying to put the children, "to adhesion-dependent" children to parents is sex, on the other hand, paternity will try to put the children in the world "was opened to the outside", and "encourage the separation and independence" of from the parent to the children, and you say.
Differences in attitude face of maternal and paternal can be represented by the simple diagram as follows.
In the figure above, motherhood is the other party ( such as children ) trying to protect wrapped into me, with respect to trying to protect, paternity is, in terms of were allowed to separate and independent opponents from their own, children can successfully self-support in order to be able to continue to, to try to make follow-up and assistance from outside, it is considered that there is a difference, such as.
Speaking of the difference between maternal and paternal in a word, motherhood is the other party in the world of the "closed to the inside" world = my uterus womb equivalent ( children ) to try to put the, "to adhesion-dependent" children to parents is sex, on the other hand, paternity is the other party in the world "was opened to the outside" ( children ) to try to put a, is "promoting the separation and independence" of from the parent to the child, and it can be said.
In this case, take the child's role is not limited to a real child, Toka underclassman if school, Toka subordinates if the workplace, there are many variations. Maternal, Yakumawari of paternity is, does not stop only at home that led by relatives, school, widely present workplace, and the like.
The difference between the two, see because summarized in simple table below.
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maternal |
Paternity |
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1 |
Aid and child support-oriented |
Empowerment-oriented |
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1-1 |
Support Care ( care, worry ) to take-home gait support the child's personal belongings. And Arekore worry about the children, help. Kaigaishiku burn the child care. Look at the child's care. Generous nursed children, to care. It is sticky to the children. |
Self-care promotion urge that the children will be able to live on their own. So that children see their care on their own, to promote self-care, and self-reliance. Watch over the children from a distance. |
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1-2 |
Nutrition grant nourish the children ( breast milk, etc. ) . Give a meal. |
Tools, materials grant to children, tools necessary to life, giving the goods, operating on their own, teach so that it can be used. |
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2 |
Acceptance and peace of mind grant-oriented |
Directive and tension grant-oriented |
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2-1 |
Receptor-accepted that the children welcome warm and "Come", "Welcome". Children is something mischievous, also made a mistake, I'll time being accepted as "I'll OH DEAR not be helped." |
Referee, rejection, instruction teach the laws and regulations referred to as "Do not do this" to the children. The law on the basis of, on the basis of objective diagnosis, judgment that the child was a bad thing, be punished. It rejects as "You are not my child". It does not forgive. Scold a child made a mistake, instruction and "to this", it issues a command. |
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2-2 |
Relax the children, reassured in their bosom, unbend. To relax the children. Let stay in place. Make spoiled children. Negirau as "cheers for good work". |
Tension grant the children, to spice. Wake up the child's eyes. Or spoiled children, not careless. |
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3 |
"In", "closed" oriented |
"Outside", "open" oriented |
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3-1 |
Embrace-inclusion ( embrace ) |
Incision a closed internal space, which confined the children tearing, and will to put the children to the external space. |
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3-2 |
Closing and exclusive ( inside and outside distinction ) consisting only of themselves and their children, creating a closed space to the outside. To distinguish the external and internal space = "mother's womb" who are of their own, to shut out the access from the outside. |
Open ( inside and outside non-distinction ) the children, was opened towards the outside world, to try to put in space that can be accessed to the outside. To children, open the door to the outside world. I thought that the space and the outside who are of their own are connected directly, not the distinction. |
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3-3 |
Internal concealment and protection of children and protection remains in a state of inclusion in their own, the children do not want to go out holed up to allow the're in it. To try to secret without leaking the inner workings to the outside. |
External exposure and released the children that do not want to leave the anxiety out, and bring out forcibly exposed to the outside air. Trying directly exposed to the external environment, to try to publish. |
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3-4 |
Climate constant ( greenhouse ) , the sweetness of their womb equivalent, at a constant temperature, raw warm at about body temperature, to try to put the children just comfortable "played the baby" of the "lukewarm" specific temperature environment = "greenhouse". |
Climate change, severity is directly exposed to the fluctuations and wind and rain of the external climate, there may become intense heat, the coldest, ( no graces ) to try to put the children in the "severe" environment. |
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3-5 |
Safety regional residence was secured of safety you are now ( internal ) and try not to issue the children from the area to the outside. Be careful so that you do not match the children to dangerous eye. |
Adventure, exploration of the outside, ( danger also be included ) and what is into the unknown region that does not know what is in store, the children on an adventure, exploration ( including those intellectual ) and let's take. |
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Four |
Connection and adhesion-oriented |
Cut and separated-oriented |
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4-1 |
Connection to the children and will closely & Connect each other. |
Cutting disconnect the children from their own, to try to put a certain distance. It entered into between the child and his mother, to cut the relationship between the two. |
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4-2 |
Adhesions and inclusion fusion integrated with the children. Like to each other sticking adhesion and children, respect the integrity and interdisciplinary sense of mutual. |
Separating their children, and would be separated, separate entities from each other. To children, it teaches so as to cherish your own world. |
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4-3 |
It made dependent indefinitely children to Natsuka to myself, and I will be in while it is dependent. |
Tsukihanashi children, Tsukihanashi from their own, away from their own, to be able to support themselves alone yourself. The attitude himself is to protect yourself, make wearing in children. |
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Five |
Same-oriented |
The difference-oriented |
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5-1 |
Equality so that it can not be disparity between the children, and attempt to treat equally. |
Differentiated by children, they have to determine and set the field that specializes, weak, according to a difference in the field, put the difference in the treatment for each child. |
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5-2 |
Non Competition and uniform without competition among children, get along side by side are to ( to standardize the ability ) that is, psychological sense of unity between children, to ensure identity. |
Free competition and individuality of allowed to freely compete in the children with each other, to accept the occurrence of a capacity gap between children. Children each other, be induced to each other acknowledged to have a different personality, the ability to each other. |
One person, only the maternal, rather than have only paternal, maternal, and have both the paternity, the ratio is, is motherhood in women many, is considered to be many paternity in men.
In addition, human maternal, because paternal is, gender, age, not necessarily related to parent and child. In other words, women ( men ) just because maternal ( paternal ) not limited to, age is high ( low ) from the parent ( child ) So maternal-paternal ( children basis ) it can not be said also.
For example, in the faction of companies and political parties of the wet atmosphere, such as Japan, the boss of the man, boss is, subordinates, for the minions, respecting the sense of unity, it is often to take a maternal attitude of tolerance. Of course, as a woman employee maternal leader, will pull the workplace, the type that matches also considered to be more common in gender ( Kozue Amano original anime " ARIA is Alicia like a type of" ) .
In addition, junior and senior high school students of the girls ( that should essentially take the children's role, relatively low age person ) is, dependent and on behalf of the unreliable mother forever feel like later also the daughter, in a maternal tolerance It seems to be in some cases that go to pull the family. In particular, Choshi who are the younger siblings of younger that you need to take care it is believed that often take a strong maternal attitudes ( for example, the eldest daughter of comic of Koharu Sakuraba "Minamike", in the Haruka Minami like a type a ) .
Alternatively, as in Japan, motherhood is dominant, there is little involvement of the children and the father, in the case of a society in which paternity is insufficient, the mother responsible for motherhood is, do not run the paternal ( can not ) on behalf of the father, to some extent paternity to the agency ( the children take out to the outside world, such as scold the children ) there is also a surface that plays a role.
[ References ]
Hayao Kawai, maternal social Japan of Pathology, 1976 , Chuokoronsha
Shigeru Matsumoto, paternal religion, maternal religion, 1987 , University of Tokyo Press
[ Abstract ] maternal-paternal can be thought of as, respectively, represent the one side as a parent with children of women and men. In that respect, maternal, paternal, the feminine, are encompassed within the male sex, it can be seen to be a part.
Maternal, paternal, respectively, women, men, represents an aspect as parents who bring their children.
That respect, maternal, paternal, respectively, feminine, the masculine, ( as a parent ) part can be regarded as one aspect.
Maternal corresponds to the feminine, paternal corresponds to the masculine.
Maternal, paternal each feminine, are encompassed within the masculine, said to be part ( see figure below ) .
Exert women motherhood with a child, men, which also had a child exhibits a paternity.
Woman, each man,
(1) is relying on the side helpless children as a patron, the presence with the power to protect the children in sufficient
(2) leaders, to children that side do not know anything of as an educator, live you need to go for, there to teach useful know-how
(3) on the side selfish unlimited of children as a control person, to hear what you say properly, control, exist to control
maturation, such as, as required adults to raise a child when he became there was, it can be said that with maternal, paternal, respectively.
During, the mother seems men are believed to also have his father feminine, in which case, in the first place, foundation, as a starting point, such a man is feminine, because such a woman is masculine, as its parent If the removal of the side, each maternal, considered it becomes a father sexually. In addition, these men, women, men, in the entire woman is positioned as a minority to have a gender identity disorder.
[ Abstract ] the relationship between the children and the paternal-maternal is, (1) whether the mother and child adhesions type = mother is the child completely enclosed, the outside is father protect, type the father is contained in the mother, (2) father mediated = while father protect periphery, intermediate type entering divided between the mother and child, (3) the type of mother-child separation type = father cut off completely ties of mother and child, separating them it can be divided. Strong maternal forces in (1) social ( matriarchal ) , said to apply to the Japanese society.
In the home, the relationship between the children and the maternal and paternal is considered to be divided into 3 types in the following figure.
(1) type mother and child adhesion type mother protect wraps completely the child, to protect his father the further outer circumference. Mother has completely adhesion and children, can not be father to enter by dividing the meantime, the type you are watching from the outside (maternal superiority, outside paternal). Or the type of father is spoiled encased in children the same mother (maternal superiority, inside paternal). In Japanese society, of which maternal superiority, it is considered to be inside the father of the type often seen.
(2) father-mediated father, enters divided between the mother and the child, the father is in direct contact with the children, a higher proportion of view type.
(3) type of mother-to-child separation type = father cut off completely the ties of mothers and children, to separate the two. In Western society, it is considered this type is often seen.
(1) Maternal and Child adhesion type of a strong mother of force, maternal domination ( matriarchal ) society of the type, mother-to-child separation of (3) type, the father of force is strong, paternal dominated ( patriarchal, patriarchy ) It is considered a type of society.
[ Abstract ] Wet society, although maternal force is a strong "matriarchal society", dry society, it says the father of the mighty "patriarchal", "patriarchal" society.
Motherhood, the parent and child are integrated with each other, the point directed to ensure that they do not depend on, parent and child can be said to have a "wet" nature that does not cling sticky to each other. In that respect, it can be said that the wet society, maternal force is strong "matriarchal" society.
On the other hand, fatherhood is, parent and child, that it directed to separate and independent from each other, it can be said to have a "dry" nature of the parent and the child is about to leave apart from each other. In that respect, dry society, it can be said that the father of the force is strong "patriarchal", "patriarchal" society.
[ Abstract ] liquid molecules motion, maternally felt, gas molecular motion is considered that it would be feels paternal.
Hereinafter, movement of the liquid (maternal), gas (paternal) shows the behavior patterns in video.
※ The following video, Mr. Mitsuru Ikeuchi has been created, "toy box of the molecule" (mike 's site ) Http://Mike1336.Web.Fc2.Com/ it has been directly borrowed the molecular motion Java program.
All rights diversion.
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Maternal = liquid type = Liquid molecular motion pattern |
Paternity = Gas type = gas molecular motion pattern |
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Maternal behavior is considered to be regarded as a liquid molecular motion.
In the liquid molecular motion, stick each molecule individuals each other, integrated, create a static passive population, population, encompasses each individual to belong in it, is in the form to protect. In this regard, of motherhood, their members include integrally, it can be said to be similar in nature to protect to distinguish from the outside.
On the other hand, paternal behavior style is considered that it would be seen as a gas molecule movement.
The gaseous molecular motion, each molecule individuals, independently of one another, self-supporting, helping myself, in the form of protecting free to dynamically spread, moving around. In this regard, the father of, actively independence their members, and to be independent, it can be said to be similar in nature to encourage to proceed to an unknown area.
2012.07 out first
Paternal, and maternal personality, gas, the relationship between the liquid molecules motion pattern, are described in detail. Paternal personality and gas molecular motion, maternal personality and liquid molecular motion and correlation.
Summary paternal human personality cognition, and maternal, to clarify gaseous materials, the sensation given to human liquid dry, the association between the wet of, web were investigated in. A gas-liquid molecular motion pattern was computer simulated 2 to one of the movie study participants 201 show in pairs to people, with each movie, feel how much paternal, the maternal as interpersonal behavior of the movement of the particles is personal or they were asked to evaluate. As a result, the gas molecular motion pattern paternal as movement of people, liquid molecular motion pattern was found to be felt as maternal. Challenges actually gas to the study participants, showed the molecular motion simulation movie of liquid, decided to investigate whether the movement of each molecule, respectively throat extent paternal in the case likened the movement of people, I feel maternal. The method
[ data collection method ] Internet web was collected answers site. In the times the answer to the question of the count, because the same study participants corresponds to the possibility to answer more than once, the same at the time of the answer IP is the main have the address considered to be the same respondents, the same IP multiple answers of address Latest 1 with considered valid only one answer, Cookie was set so as not to accept multiple answers using.
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Research subjects ] the total number of study participants who obtained the answer is 201 people (male 105 people, female 96 people) was. Gender information, the gender selection field at the time of answer web provided in a radio button on the page, was obtained by get the selected input.
[ Investigation period ] survey period is 2007 years 8 May 21 from days 8 May 31 of day 11 was days.
[ Stimulation Video ] stimulation, Ar ( argon ) to simulate the molecular motion pattern of Java programs, Mitsuru Ikeuchi (2002) web of sites obtained from, as most clearly shows the molecular motion of each liquid and gas, absolute temperature 20 degrees ( liquid )When 300 ° ( gas ) was adjusted to represent each of the molecular motion of. Gas program displayed, the movie of the liquid each molecule motion capture on a personal computer, each 30 of seconds windowsmediavideo processed into the form of movies, web and can be reproduced from the study participants' computers on the site. Still image of each movie, Figure1 is as.
[ The questions ] "This is for the above each movie, is what you play the movement of people in fast forward. One by one of lumpy will represent the human person. How much paternal nature of the people in this movie, or it feels maternal 5 Please evaluation phase. "as, was paternal, maternal each to answer separately. Stage, "I do not feel (0) " very feel from " (4) of the" 5 to the stage.
[ Procedure ] each movie is, at a time 1By number, the order presented in the random, and so as to answer to every movie. Answer since it is difficult and not while watching the movie is actually moving, each movie has to flow in the reply in endless. It should be noted that, as a debriefing of the experimental operation, at the time the answer is completed, "Actually this is, gas, was a simulation movie of liquid molecular motion." The disclaimer that was presented on the screen.
Result
gas, liquid molecular motion pattern, the mean value and the standard deviation of evaluation value of the degree of felt, respectively paternal and maternal as nature of human Table1 is as shown in.
Paternal by type of show movie, to see the difference in the maternal to the degree that I felt, of the difference between the mean values of there corresponding t was test (both sides) (N = 201) . The results Table2 is as.
When we saw the molecular motion of the liquid, paternal, for the degree to which feel maternal, the numerical value of the degree to which you feel the maternal is, by the degree feel paternal remote, was significantly higher (t (200) = 5.67, the p-<.01) .
When I saw the molecular motion of the gas, paternal, for the degree to which feel maternal, the numerical value of the degree to which feel paternal is, by the degree feel maternal remote, it was significantly higher (t (200) = 4.96, the p-<.01) .
For you feel gas and liquid at a more paternal either the degree of feel gaseous molecular motion pattern paternal is significantly higher than the degree of feel liquid molecular motion pattern paternal(T (200) = 4.28, the p-<.01) .
For you feel gas and liquid at a more maternal Which is the degree of feel liquid molecular motion pattern maternal is significantly higher than the degree of maternally feel gaseous molecular motion pattern (t (200) = 6.82, the p-<.01) .
Discussion
The above results, when observed resemble a simulation of the gas molecules motion human being recognized as paternal nature, whereas, the liquid molecular motion was found to be recognized as maternal nature. Those who behave like the gas molecular motion pattern personality to paternal, sought to be felt maternal in person behaves similarly to the liquids molecular motion pattern.
Chart
Figure.1 gas, liquid molecular motion pattern
molecular motion simulation movie (which was shown to the study participants)
Gas molecular motion
Liquid molecular motion
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Stimulus type |
Paternal |
Maternal |
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Liquid molecular motion |
0.37 |
0.90 |
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Gas molecular motion |
0.76 |
0.31 |
n = 201
Table.2 average difference comparison result of between Article matter (with support)
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Comparison |
t -test |
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Liquid maternal - Liquid paternal |
t (200) = 5.67 ** |
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Gas paternal - gas maternal |
t (200) = 4.96 ** |
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Gas paternal - Liquid paternal |
t (200) = 4.28 ** |
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Liquid maternal - gas maternal |
t (200) = 6.82 ** |
** p <.01
[ Abstract ] conventional, "sex to raise birth to a child" is exclusively female ( maternal ) has been is, for women instinct that you want to nurture their children, have a "maternal instinct", it is considered. However, for the idea, and the re-examination is necessary I suppose.
Conventional, "raise birth to a child sex" is exclusively female ( maternal ) has been is, for women instinct that you want to nurture their children, have a "maternal instinct", is considered. However, for the idea, and the re-examination is needed I think.
(1) "of give birth to a child" is, conventionally, female ( maternal ) has been considered. However, in practice, to the children of the birth, the presence of the father side gene is essential, it is not possible to give birth in the mother only. In addition, when the mothers give birth to children, father, plays a function of protecting the mother and child safe from the outside. In that respect, children, men and women ( parents ) should be considered to give birth in the joint.
(2) "sex to nurture a child," is, conventionally, female ( maternal ) has been thought to be. Indeed, breast-feeding for infants, there is a non-surface and not the mother, is at such a point, a woman of given exclusively. However, when the period of breast-feeding is finished, the father, it becomes possible interventions for child care.
In terms of child care, for example, in the strong Western society paternity, a child is pulled away from the mother, there is a convention that is laid down in the private room. This paternity is to intervene between the adhesion relationship between mother and child, believed to serve to separate and independently children from her mother, is a good example showing that paternity is intervened in child care. By the way, in the strong Japanese society of motherhood, mother and children it has become customary to sleep stick to like "the river of character".
In addition, in the Western society, the time that his father is involved in the child's personal care is, mother as Japan is compared to the society exclusively to look after the children, is to be more generous (Mitsuyoshi Masuda, "the American family, Japanese family, "1969, NHK publication).
In parenting, child and father ( mother ) that strong ties and, society paternal ( maternal ) between the it is, is considered a great relationship. Such as Japan, I see mothers exclusively after the children society, maternal ( matriarchal ) is, on the other hand, as in Europe and the United States, the father of the intervention of a large community in the upbringing of children, paternal ( patriarchal control )In it, I can say.
First of all, I want you to greater health smarter and raised their children, the urge of parenting that you want to help as much as possible in order that for the child, the father nor mother, is considered to have in common as a parent. Or, want to have their own children and heart-to-heart contact, I want to tell the know-how and values that have the their own children, the idea that you want to share with the children, regardless of gender, if the parent has a built-in the same way .
Such child-rearing, the urge to seek the interaction with children, "parent ( as of ) instinct (parental instinct) are those that can be called even a", by it, whether the parent is male or female, "paternal instinct "" it believed to be classified as a maternal instinct. "
In the past, because the maternal to the way we treat the type of touch in close proximity to the children, from looking on by an outsider is flush against the child, the child's care, is seen to be more Kaigaishiku, therefore, parenting whole world It was easy to be considered maternal given exclusively in.
However, as of Western society, with his father, independence for the children, aggressive intervention in the child-rearing with the aim of recharge of independence heart is, take the form of mother-to-child separation in child care, there is a society that is actually performed it is also true to.
In the case of paternal society, such as the Western society, father management of, under the initiative, the mother, as part of the household chores and child care, father ( husband ) because doing in a way that is dependent on the in the actual situation It is considered to be. In that regard, parenting, at least in the paternal society, not necessarily be said to be the mother of the given exclusively, but rather, it can be said that the psychological influence of the father is working large with respect to child-rearing.
Of the type mother and children to adhesions as Japan, maternal force ( as compared to the paternal ) in the dominant society, originally parenting in which the mother is a monopoly, the father has been that there is no relationship. Therefore, parenting is said to be "maternal instinct" ideology that to be the mother of the given exclusively to is likely more accepted.
However, to say that's what parenting is that mothers do, Western carried out as a part of the domestic work under the control of the father of society ( paternal ) and, mother to monopolize the decision-making on child-rearing Japanese society ( maternal )In the, to say that raising children by the same mother, the degree of impact on the parenting of "motherhood", the dense of, considerable gap, a fact that is undeniable is that there is a difference.
Of from the point of view of status conservation women in Japan, mother, do not let go of the authority of conventional child-rearing can be said to be a good idea. The thing, remain indifferent, of Western-style, thin society of motherhood, to no, motherhood is a tone that is referred to as "the mother should be released from the chores of parenting" of society that does not grasp the initiative in raising children mechanically do not the people to be Atehameyo in Japanese society is too much.
However, in Japan, in the prior art, and quit once the company for raising children, there is a problem that it is difficult to re-employment in a satisfactory form, it is, dissatisfaction for women who have found a purpose in life to work in the company and it is made by, it parenting avoidance of women ( for example reduction of the birth rate ) is a fact has led to.
In the future, in Japanese society, "raising children or, work or of the company" rather than the alternative that, a certain period of time to concentrate on raising children, then, that to fully return to work of the company, "raising children also, way of life that also both pursuing "the work of the company is believed to be required as desirable for the mother. To that end, Toka extension of the maternity leave period of the mother in the company, is Toka legitimate evaluation of the carrier before the child care retirement in the mother of re-employment seems to be necessary to build up a more made susceptible labor environment.
However, this is, in the future in Japanese society, mother the conventional child-rearing is a story in the assumption that monopoly. From the viewpoint of the balance of influence between the paternal and maternal in Japanese society, Japan's father is likely to say also at first glance that it is desirable to participate in more aggressive parenting.
However, the first place in Japan of his father and the lack of paternity, because it does not put divided between the adhesion structure of mother and child, as well as participated in the example parenting, mother ( wife ) at the initiative under, convenient the is likely to end up just as Kokitsukawa as labor provider will be circumstances. To avoid it, Japan of the father, in some way, father of injection from the outside ( it is necessary to import), for example, it is considered that the model his father's paternal of Western society.
Created in May 2003 - July 2004
That when not accustomed to mother remain substantially woman even, a Western woman, of a time not accustomed to his father remains substantially man even, a Japanese man. In short, only produce children, not Grow aggressively, without trying to Ao direction directly with the children, leave the parenting to the other sex, their own is of trying to escape from parenting.
Maternal, paternal, the feminine, while the male sexual-based, child-rearing function, as skills, newly acquired to learn at an additional plus, acquisition, it can be said that the like should be baton between generations.
As of Japanese women, women with a strong maternal is the case of the mother, baton of maternal goes smoothly for the daughter. However, on the one hand, turn off the son of paternity, there is weaken, resulting in the loss side effects.
On the other hand, as the Western men, if men with a strong paternal is the father, baton of paternity goes smoothly for the son. However, on the one hand, turn off the maternal daughter, there is weaken, resulting in the loss side effects.
Western like a woman, influence of paternity is strong, and a woman is the mother of maternal loss, daughter is the next generation of children will not receive the maternal, baton miss occurs. As a result, inter-generational chain of maternal loss occurs.
As Japanese men, strong maternal influence, that's father man of paternal disappearance, his son is the next generation of children will not receive the paternal, baton miss occurs. As a result, it occurs intergenerational chain of paternal loss.
Once these baton mistakes happened, someone else in the maternal woman, and a paternal male model, respectively, maternal, is necessary to receive the paternal occur.
Western women who lost the maternal may If you receive the maternal from maternal strong Japanese mother.
Lost Japan male paternity may If you receive a paternity from the strong Western father of paternity.
How to receive is, fiction, non-fiction films, animation, also may than learn from Toka books, actually flesh and blood of the maternal woman, from the paternal male, ask them become lecturers, to coach, to get taught in schools form But good.
Motherhood, might be good even if there is Toka computer software for paternity learning.
In short, motherhood, and to the fact that we need a model study of paternal skills.
At that time, how can you learn what skills becomes a problem. In addition, for example, in the strong maternal Japan, but make for maternal skills, you can not make for paternity skills.
Created in August 2012
[ Abstract ] motherhood is a fragile existence less than their own, their children as well, we want to protect, you want to hug, you want to integrate, would like wraps, is related to the "cute" oriented. At that time, round pleasant to hug, there is a tendency to seek the presence of software.
On the other hand, paternity, the subject ( children, robot, etc. ) , and dissected the difficulties posed by the external environment, it is possible to break, of only can be widely active through the vast environment space, the scale is large, try to powerful and robust presence to, is related to the "mighty steel" oriented.
Motherhood is related to the fragile existence less than their own, their children as well, we want to protect, you want to hug, you want to integrate, would like wraps, as "cute" oriented. At that time, round pleasant to hug, there is a tendency to seek the presence of software.
On the other hand, paternity, the subject ( children, robot, etc. ) , and dissected the difficulties posed by the external environment, it is possible to break, of only can be widely active through the vast environment space, the scale is large, try to powerful and robust presence to be, related to the "mighty steel" oriented.
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Maternal attitude |
Paternal attitude |
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Cuteness (pretty) oriented cute things ( baby, small pets, etc. ) are interested in child care |
Mighty steel (mighty steel) directed to the object, it is interested in raising the mighty those with robust sharpness |
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1 |
Small (little) oriented prefer small |
Size (big, large) oriented in a larger scale, like those grand |
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2 |
Kayowa of (delicate) oriented prefer those frail |
Strength (strong) oriented prefer a stronger |
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3 |
Fine of (detail) oriented prefer a fine-grained understanding of things to take care of manual dexterity |
Roughness (rough) oriented prefer a rough grasp of things |
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Four |
Circular (round) oriented prefer the ones with rounded destination |
Acute (sharp) oriented pointed, like a sharp things |
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Five |
Softness (soft) oriented prefer the softer |
Hardness ( hardness ) (hard) oriented rigid ( hard ) prefer those |
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→ |
Specific (Specific) · Limited (limited) oriented prefer to stick to unimportant details |
Global and general (general) oriented prefer the view of global ones |
From those "cute", by contact with itself, to a subject, see the maternal in me are those that feel the mother. Subject to entertain a feeling as if he has become the target, partner of the mother, it turns out to be the opponent to be referred to as "cute".
For example, when the high school girls say that middle-aged men as "that uncle, cute", she who is than looking at the "mother" in me, unconsciously, become a mother, "Uncle encompasses ", you want to hug, it has become the mood that I want to protect.
Women (maternal women, such as the Japanese women) can be said to be a driving force behind who invented the concept of "cute". Japanese animation, comics, "cute" can be seen in Toka figure, it is considered to have contributed greatly to the "Moe" (the so-called "beautiful girl", "teenager") invention of the character design. This can be expressed in terms of "cute originality".
Created in May 2003 - July 2004
[ Abstract ] maternal organization, members are some organizations respecting the "embraced, protected is" feeling. Organization is a mother, member is a child. In the paternal organization, each member belonging to the organization, in the form of separation, independently of the others to each other, and trying to achieve a freely goals while receiving the control by the father instead of the administrator.
Such as companies and authorities, with respect to social organization, described in other terms, the distinction between maternal and paternal applies.
Maternal organization, itself, appears in front of the members as one of the big "mother existence". To enter the maternal tissue, enters the "mother's womb", the same sense as are embraced in it, give to members.
Maternal organization, organization members is by "embraced, protected by" respect the feeling. Organization is a mother, member is a child. Somewhere until it corresponds to the "womb of the mother", to try to draw a clear boundary line in the range, trying to distinguish the inside and outside of the organization. The oneness of internal importance, which is closed to the outside. Internally, each other warm, to maintain sometimes "Body temperature = lukewarm" specific integrated fuse, a unity sense, the tuning-cooperative, prized the service to the whole organization, significant degree of interference to members.
Members of the maternal tissues, a state that was swallowed completely itself to tissue as a mother to the tissue, discharging all energy, the energy is absorbed in the tissue. In this case, the member is fully integrated into the organization, all personality is attributed to the organization's members, it is captured as if to immersive. Once, upon entering the organization, it is difficult to escape than to be discharged is considered unnecessary from the organization.
The paternal organization, each member belonging to the organization, and others separated from each other, in separate form, free to try to achieve the goal while receiving control by father instead of the administrator. Organization is open toward the outside, inside and outside of the distinction is loose. Members, before a member of the organization, is guaranteed to be one of the independent free individuals. It is easy to exit from the organization.
In the maternal organization, organization of the administrator, ( was also a man for example ) play against members of the role of the mother instead, on the other hand, in the paternal organization, the administrator is the father instead.
By the way, the Japanese company and the government, the way the organization is maternal, Western it is considered to be paternal.
In addition, other than the organization in order to achieve a specific objective, the community ( eg village ) , such as, also to the community is a social group that comprehensively fulfill the request of the members, "maternal community" (for example, unevenness of Japan), it is possible to assume that the called "paternal community" (for example villages in the West).
Alternatively, also for the entire society, "maternal society (maternal society, maternal dominant society, maternal dominated society)" (for example, Japan Society), "paternal society (paternal society, paternal superiority society, paternal dominated society)" ( for example, Western society) of that it is possible to envisage.
These properties, maternal tissue, is common and paternal tissue.
Created in May 2003 - July 2007
[ Abstract ] maternal Mother rights society, to distinguish between the inside and outside, integrated with each other within the interior of the fixed frame, and then directed to harmony. Mother is done compiled of the entire members, the inclusion. Paternity Father rights society, has been externally opened, individual members are free-standing independent of each other, and oriented to move around at high speed. My father instructions to the members, do the assistance.
Maternal Mother rights society, to distinguish between the inside and outside, integrated with each other within the interior of the fixed frame, and directed to harmony. Members are being held in the womb of the mother, it is protected. My mother made dependent of the member, the entire compilation, carried out the inclusion.
Paternity Father rights society, has been externally opened, individual members are free-standing independent of each other, to direct that move around at high speed. My father (separated from the mother's womb) the member is self-supporting, the necessary instructions, and assistance.
Created 07 May 2008
Society to move in the "father of the law" is a Western society, is a man society.
Society to move in the "mother of the law" is the Japan uneven society, a woman society.
Social law sources of are not the only ones father.
Those made derived from the mother there are many. For example, emphasis on harmony and belonging, is exclusivity.
Embed mother of the law to the children is the discipline of the mother, maternal mother, carried out by the maternal father. Embed the father of the law to the children is the discipline of his father, paternal father, carried out by the paternal mother.
Is Hayao Kawai, these maternal mother, considers maternal father and agricultural society from which each dealing with the soil, the mother of the soil, is called the father of the soil. On the other hand, paternal mother, the paternal father, be regarded as derived from the nomadic society with ties to the sky, is called the heaven of the mother, heavenly Father.
Conventional Freud, the idea of a society that moves by the law of the father of Western Europe flow such as Jung, father break the mother and child a sense of unity, has been to be in the inculcate social norms, this is, all over the world not the idea-class.
In the society run by the mother of the law as Japanese society, mother, they are holding their own social norms, know and have been made to teach children in the role of main. There, the role of the father you've become a thing of secondary.
Created 04 May 2014
[ Abstract ] What are you doing to catch a "curtain" was so hard to see seclusion within閉的nation from the outside, a sense of unity of the people with each other, harmony, and unbalance the match unity, prefer the regulatory and social control state It is maternal. On the other hand, national independence, allow the pieces of, with respect for the freedom of the individual, the state that is open to the outside is paternal.
Comparison between the maternal and paternal in the organization Given at the national level, it can be said and maternal nation state appears Standing as a giant mother of one person, to appear Standing as the father paternal state is present. What are you doing or "curtain" the drawn was so hard to see seclusion within閉的nation from the outside, a sense of unity of the people with each other, harmony, and unbalance the match unity, prefer the regulatory and social control nation, maternal is a basis. On the other hand, people's independence allows apart is, with respect to individual freedom, national opened to the outside is paternally.
1980 lasted until the 's, and the liberal camp in the West to emphasize the freedom and rights of the individual, priority is given to the interests of the entire national population Russia, also confrontation of the socialist camp, such as China, liberal camp = paternal superiority of the camp, society can be regarded as a principle camp = maternal superiority of the camp, therefore, it is possible to see as a conflict between paternal and maternal.
By the way, Japan is ostensibly belonged to the paternal liberal camp, the actual situation is, well-controlled by the state, think about the survival of the government agencies and the corporate group in the first, maternal closer to the socialist camp It was a system. Therefore, it advocated the "Japan heterogeneous theory" from the West, is considered that supposed to be struggling to support.
Once out of the socialist countries, China and Russia, the current North Korea are all, it enters the maternal person. Then, strongly Western oriented join the ranks of developed countries, even Japan, which appear in Western and whether you mentally integrated, fact and examine well the national character, "uneven manner," "Naniwabushi specific" human relations is heavily present in the underlying to have, it can be said to fall within the maternal person. Japan as a maternal nation, it can not be said never a member of the paternal a Western nation, but rather China, Russia, entering the North Korea of fellow.
Created in May 2003 - July 2004
Gas specific paternal a Western country in the dry is, a state in which their people can fly independently freely apart, in order to make us to hold as before, so to speak country, ensure the freedom of their own in order to avoid losing to us state in which, to cooperate in the maintenance of the country, and of trying to Nagedaso life, and this is a source of patriotism.
On the other hand, liquid specific maternal country of Japan in the wet is, their own people, to both the country and the fate of the subject was completely integrated fusion of a member in the form to enter the interior, of the country to regulate their and of trying to Nagedaso life, and this is a source of patriotism in order.
Created in April 2014
[ Abstract ] is a liberal, individual and privacy paternity that meets the dry modern ego, such as respect for in the West, on the contrary, by respecting the integrity and interdisciplinary sense of mutual, cause the individual is subordinate to a group wet maternal prefer is, contrary to Western Europe modern ego, or is there to kill the western modern ego.
Liberalism in the West, is a paternal that meets the dry modern ego, such as respect for the individual and privacy, wet to the contrary, by respecting the integrity and interdisciplinary sense of each other, the individual likes to be subordinate to a group a maternal is contrary to modern Western ego, or is the presence kill modern ego.
It can be said that the independent and disparate individuals Western Europe and the United States of the modern era to be ideal from moving freely is a society in which the strength of the paternity has been established. On the other hand, not been established ego, such as those found in modern Western, the degree is immature individual of self-reliance, Japan is said to be weak, China, society, such as Russia, the individual is integrated, buried in a population , maternal that specializes in to so that the whole moves work together can be said to be an advantage.
In that sense, the establishment of modern ego in Western Europe, it can be said that was to lead to weakening of the maternal kill and women.
Western feminism aimed at women's liberation is, if the original, maternal recovery, seeking to strengthen, modern ego, no melted melted and into the belonging group, that individuals are fused with a pleasant sense of unity in the population or not than it should aim. In short, Western feminists it is, strong maternal, is of a such as East Asia and Russia is a wet population society should have been a model.
As in the current of Western feminism, while maintaining the ego that was the western modern firm, to argue that enhance the feminine and maternal, which contradict each other, is that of the original impossible. A place that is not aware of such a conflict, will weak place of the Western feminist.
For example, as of liberal feminism, while chanting the freedom of the individual, on the other hand to argue the expansion of women's power in is obviously wrong. Originally, motherhood is, service to the group to which it belongs than the freedom of the individual, because the thing to give priority to harmony. As long as that respect the freedom of the individual, as usual, under a dry father of the women is the other not to continue smoldering remains suppressed.
Western feminists, while is said that women in male chauvinism has been discrimination, in fact, his wife = holding mother is the real power of the household purse or children education, and "wet fallen leaves" treat the husband, the mother-in-law son and daughter-in-law or would not than we should know better the actual situation of maternal dominated society such as Japan to authoritarian dominated.
Originally, women scholars of Japan to serve help it, though is such should be feminists, they themselves, Western busy though as it is fit to be imported to Japan, the theory made of feminists, of Japanese society is an ironic reality that ignorant to maternal advantage of the situation.
At any rate, the values of Western Europe modernity = paternity center that aims to independence of the individual, the melting of the population of Koga, the maternal values that aims to integrate a contradictory existence with each other, co-exist as it is impossible. What can come up with a way of this difficult coexistence somehow, it can be said that is an issue to be determined future researchers of gender psychology, sociology.
Created in May 2003 - July 2004
The foundation of democracy, individual freedom, respect for human rights of the individual, equality between individuals, for the generation of values such, is considered to have different role to the charge in the maternal and paternal.
Of individual freedom, the respect of human rights of individuals, in its realization, the individual is to some extent with the autonomy, it is necessary to move around so as to be separated from each other. This is not inherent to the inside of motherhood, is the values that can not be produced in the maternal. Maternal aimed at individual is wrapped warm in whole, in harmony with the whole of the individual, coordination and, at the service of individuals for the whole, because it is solely slope tend to values such as sacrifice. In this respect, the mutual separation, dry paternal turn to promote independent between individuals.
On the other hand, the values of equality between individuals, is considered a non-discrimination between individuals, it is maternal directed the same view has the initiative.
Created in May 2003 - July 2004
[ Abstract ] Japanese housing, as in the office, inside, whether or not there is a partition large room, even if there is partition, or thinner as bran, are adapted to be detached immediately, the high toward the outside wall made of the structure, which is separated from the outside world things, emphasizes the sense of unity between the inside of the members, that it is external to closed, it says that maternal.
Japanese homes and offices, the maternal characteristics, Western residential or office, it can be said to have a paternal features.
Speaking of why it so, individuals and organizations to move in it, each maternal, it can be said that because it is paternal.
Maternal residential and office, emphasizing the sense of unity between the members of the internally. In other words, "○○ house" is the interior of the housing and office of "○○ company", whether or not there is a partition large room, even if there is partition, or thinner as bran, so that the removable immediately. It has become a make of that point "everyone together". Each member is, each other while looking at the behavior of other members, or to work, live. In that respect, there is no privacy between the members.
On the other hand, paternal residential and office, individuals of the separation of the inside, to focus on independence. In other words, the inside of the housing office is, or has become a private room with a key, have been separated by high sturdy screen to each desk, the independence of each member, has a structure that emphasizes privacy.
Maternal houses and offices are closed towards the outside. For example, in single-family homes, toward the outside, it is Megurasa tension high walls and fences, separated from the outside world, which is in a closed structure that does not allow outsiders invasion.
On the other hand, the paternal houses and offices are open towards the outside. For example, in a single-family house, garden toward the outside is exposed without the fence.
Maternal residential and office, for the members themselves, it corresponds to the womb of the mother. In the interior of the housing and offices, there are exchanges full of warm sense of unity of members each other, it is one of the inner ring of the world limited closed towards the outside.
By the way, the Japanese shrine, building, the grounds there is a theory that has been likened to the womb of the mother.
Created in October 2005
[ Abstract ] In the maternal profession, staff will receive a warm that of the other party, to the other party, support, care, with respect to carry out the care, the paternal occupation, to the staff party, independence of the other party , to promote an independent ( Tsukihanashi the opponent ) , along with the give the knowledge needed to go to survive in the guidelines and one person to be protected, to punish an opponent that did not abide by the law.
In the maternal profession, staff, partner and their children as well, receiving a warm, generous care, support and care.
The maternal occupation, something like the following, and the like.
(1) child care, support, and care is carried out. Nursery, kindergarten-elementary school teacher.
(2) I do take care of the sick, support, care, and assistance. nurse. counselor. care worker.
(3) take care of the passengers, support, and care is carried out. Flight attendants ( stewardesses ) .
(4) I do take care of the family, support, and care. housewife.
(5) to customers, relaxation, to provide the rest of the field. Inns and hotels staff.
(6) support for the nutrition of the customer, care, and design. Nutritionist.
In the paternal occupation, officials, opponent of independence, to promote an independent ( Tsukihanashi the opponent ) , along with the give the knowledge needed to go to survive in the guidelines and one person should protect, the calm diagnosis from an objective point of view beat, to punish an opponent that did not abide by the law.
The paternal occupation, something like the following, and the like.
(1) tools necessary for life to the customer, teach how to operate the goods. Instructor.
(2a) gives the laws to protect the customer. Lawyers.
(2b) to the customer, it makes an objective diagnosis, a referee. doctor. Umpire. judge.
(2b) fix to incision, surgery customers. Customer to give punishment, to rehabilitate. doctor. judge. Probation officer.
Created November 2005
In the maternal society, to try to operate the opponent while close contact with the opponent, the adhesion operation becomes the main.
The paternal society, away from the other, remote control, commands the opponent as radio control, performing instructions, increasing device remote operation becomes main.
Created in October 2013
In the case of paternal society, to monitor the opponent, it will become superior to the other party, the movement (national wiretapping by the US government) to try to dominate the opponent, and a movement that intends to become free from the monitoring of the other party, antagonistic to each other and, each other contested. Therefore, unilateral surveillance society in the less likely is.
In the case of maternal society, there is only better to try to monitor the opponent each other. The remainder no motion seeking to become free from the monitoring. Therefore mutual monitoring, the checks and balances society.
Created in October 2013
